What Happened to My Sex Life?
June 2, 2000 — My friend April, a 24-year-old graduate student from
Pittsburgh, began taking the popular antidepressant Zoloft in February, and
says the drug is fabulous. April’s calmer and much less anxious — although
when she pauses to think about it, the 50-milligram blue tablet she takes every
morning seems to be causing her all kinds of anxiety.
“My sex drive is still there and the arousal is the same. But when I
have intercourse, it takes way longer for me to have an orgasm, or I don’t have
one at all. That never happened to me before,” says tall, willowy April
who, like others in this story, has been given a pseudonym.
April’s drug-induced frigidity is causing her enough anxiety to consider
taking an additional drug to relax her. “I’m afraid my partner will ask me
to go off the Zoloft, but I feel too good on it. I’m starting to think I’m
going to have to fake it, and I don’t want to do that, but I don’t really know
what else to do.”
April is not alone. The antidepressant she is taking is an SSRI (selective
serotonin reuptake inhibitor) and, like other drugs in the same family (Prozac,
Paxil, Luvox, Effexor, and Celexa), they clobber sex drive in up to 60% of
those who take them. But SSRIs are so awesomely effective that, for most people
who take them, the pleasures of sex take a back seat to a sense of calm and
serenity that the drugs create.
SSRIs are the current drugs of choice for treating depression, and the most
popular still is Prozac. At $2.6 billion, Prozac, which costs about $90 a
month, has the third-best annual sales of any pharmaceutical sold in the United
States, according to market research firm IMS Health.
Such drugs may be great for prisoners, priests, and recovering
nymphomaniacs. But what about the rest of us?
Claire, a 46-year-old writer from Detroit, is a case in point. Before Claire
got married 20 years ago, she prided herself on her libertine ways. At any
given moment, Claire would have three or four lovers stashed away. Sex was
Claire’s middle name.
Because of health-related problems and difficulties at her job, Claire
started taking Paxil four years ago. “I was totally stressed out. I was in
tears every day. Everything seemed too much to handle. No small thing was too
small to set me off. I felt I was in a tornado continually sucking me down. If
I snagged my sweater on barbed wire, I’d be unable to get free. I’d stay snared
for days or weeks. Paxil was terrific. But no one warned me about the side
effects — although, really, it didn’t matter because suddenly there was peace,
some days I wasn’t in tears. And soon, I never felt the need to cry.”
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